Ask Me!

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I have been the only parent for 13 years now and still I am no expert in solo parenting. But with this blog, I am able to enlighten a lot of parents like me. I have received a number of emails from my readers and some of them asked for guidance and advice regarding their situations. 

So, don't be shy dear readers. Ask me via the comment section or via twitter (@TheOnlyParent4U . Our exchanges may be able to help a solo parent in need. 

Thank you very much for the continued patronage. We can do this TOPs!

Much love,

The Only Parent (TOP)

Can I Do It?

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There are days when we question ourselves. Can I do it? Will I survive this? This is one of those days when I am trying to look at me and my daughter's future but all I see is haze. Something is bugging me for a long time now and it involves my daughter's future. How can I say no if it is what she wants. Can I afford it? The answer now is no but should I stop her? Should I try and change her mind? 

I will think about this dilemma for a long time but hopefully, it will all be okay. One thing is for sure, I will do everything in my power to ensure a bright future for her. 

I can do it!

Much love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)

Making the Right Decision

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How would you know if you are making the right decision for your child? I know that it is hard to decide if you are the only one weighing the pros and cons of a situation. However, you need not go through it alone. You have family and friends to help you in your decisions. You can even go online, do research and/or read online forums. It is relatively easy if you know where to turn to during these times. 

Let me give you an example. When I was looking for a high school for my daughter, I first checked for proximity. It was very important to me because I wanted to be there immediately for emergencies and other after school activities when school service is not available. Since there are a lot of schools nearby, I narrowed it to three and research the schools online. Of course I also have to take into consideration the tuition since I am the only parent paying for it. Then, I discussed the advantages and disadvantages of each school to other members of the family and some friends. And then, my daughter and I decided which school we wanted.

It was easy right? The important thing to remember when confronted with a situation is not to panic. If ever we make the wrong decision, we just have to move on and learn from it. Being the only parent is not a hindrance to us and our children. We should have the I can attitude and face life head on. 

Much love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)