Happy Father's Day MOM!

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Today I honor all solo moms and only parent to their children. With the enormous task of juggling your role to be both the dad and mom to your children, you have given them the greatest gift of all - LOVE. Continue to be great and continue to love your children twice as much as others! Your children truly have the best of both worlds. 

Happy Father's day Mom!

Much love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)

Being Honest

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I believe that being honest with our kids is the best way to raise them. As I have mentioned before, I have been very vocal and honest with my daughter regarding her dad, the circumstances that led to our separation and how I felt about it. Just the other night, we had another story session in the car while traveling home from a party. This time around, I told her some of our family's secrets. Although she is only 14 year old, I know that she can understand well and it won't her in any way. 

Many of you may disagree with me but the truth is, I felt it was time to tell her the truth and at the same time, teach her some lessons regarding the mistakes we made in the past. Our 1 hour ride proved to be a great time to let her know our family better. She was curious and careful with her questions. I tried to explain the best possible way that I know she can understand. It was really worth the ride. 

Much love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)

Child Support

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I know that every solo parent has their own opinion about this but I will still share my view on this matter. My blog is The Only Parent meaning I don't receive anything from the father for her daughter. I don't get child support.. I know I have the right to ask but I don't want to. Why? Because I believe that if the father is in his right mind, I don't need to ask. Simple as that. Asking is like begging someone to do something they don't want to. I may not afford everything my daughter needs but I will never ever ask for support from her dad ever. You might think that because I have only one child, I can afford not to ask for child support. Well, that is partially true. If I have 3 or 4 children, I may think about it BUT if I can, I will still not ask.

I believe that child support should be given without you needing to ask and without you having to file a case. Child support is a must. Fathers who take their children seriously should know that it is their responsibility to give their child the support they need in whatever kind. If they can't support their children, then they have no right to be included in their children's lives. 

Much love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)