Part Time Solo Parent

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I have friends who are married but their husbands are either working in another place or working at different hours than the normal. I describe them as Part Time Solo Parent because most of the time, they are the ones doing the parenting at home. One day, one of them (the one whose husband works the night shift) called me. She was saying that she misses her husband especially at night when he needs to go to work. Her only companions at home are their children. She misses having someone to do chores, to talk, to bond and to sleep with at home. 

I say that instead of focusing on the nights that the husband is not at home, try to focus on the anticipation of a whole weekend with the husband. Make a to-do list. One day can be a family bonding time and one day can be a date night. Of course it will not be easy because of the many other things that needs to be taken care of BUT you still have the time and you should use it wisely. 

Anticipation and Time Management is the key to making more memories together.

Much Love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)

Keep Calm

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It has been a series of emotional roller coaster ride for me the last 2 weeks. My daughter has some health concerns and I am worried big time. I have been worrying since her last check up and she still has to undergo a series of tests in the very near future. Since I am the only parent, I turn to family and friends when deciding what to do. As I have mentioned in my past posts, you always need to find that support group who can help you if not financially, at least, emotionally. I always tell my friends first when something concerns my daughter. They are the ones who analyzes situations for me and help me decide what's best. My family I turn to when I have decided and I need them to help me financially or just be there to help any time I need it. 

There will still be many days in the future that you would have these worry days. As your child/children grow, the level of worrying increases. In the 15 years that I have my daughter, I still worry about everything when it comes to her. That is why I admire those who have 2 or more kids. That's worrying times 2 or more! LOL!

Keep Calm my dear only parent. We Can Do THIS! 

Much love,

The Only Parent (T.O.P.)