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A bad relationship with your EX doesn't give you the right to snub the almost in-laws. Unless of course they treat you like shit! Almost in-laws can be your ally in anything. You should treat them like family. If they are treating you and your child well, there is no reason for you not to be friendly with them.
I am lucky since my EX's family treat me like their own. They invite me and my daughter to reunions and other family events. EX's circle of friends are the same. They treat us like family and we are always invited in every party they have. It helps to be friends with them early on. The relationship I have with the almost in-laws and EX's circle of friends does not rely on my relationship with EX. Whether he is there during reunions or not, it does not define our presence.
As long as the almost in-laws treat you well, treat them as family. You will be glad you did.
Much love,
T.O.P. (The Only Parent)
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